2019-01-02

How do I find out Louis CK performance info so I can heckle? - Comedy comedian louisck

Post 329997 by davidstandaford deleted for the following reason: This isn’t a good use of AskMe -- LobsterMitten

2019-01-01

Wedding trip and details - travelling

Post 329949 by lacestita deleted for the following reason: No, this is spam and your account is closed -- LobsterMitten

2018-12-31

Happy New Year, how do you do? - delectations

Post 329928 by Twang deleted for the following reason: Heya - thank you - but better to put this over in Metatalk instead -- LobsterMitten

2018-12-30

How can I make my life truly interesting, unique? - existence lifestyle future

Post 329915 by 2ears1mouth deleted for the following reason: Heya, I appreciate that there's an element of "I'm not sure what I'm trying to ask" to this, but you do need to rework this into a more focused, specific and answerable question for it to work for Ask MetaFilter. -- cortex

2018-12-28

Help me argue against the colander - fsm pastafarianism

Post 329854 by zadcat deleted for the following reason: AskMe is really not set up for philosophical debates, sorry. -- restless_nomad

2018-12-24

Etiquette around guests and voice activated tech assistants? - Alexa BigBrother creepytechnology

Post 329738 by Sublimity deleted for the following reason: Sorry, but Ask Metafilter isn't really for general discussion/debate on a topic, but for trying to help with a specific problem -- taz

2018-12-21

How can I deal with this feeling of loneliness and depression? - deprssion friends parents

Post 329671 by Tiffy119 deleted for the following reason: Hey, I'm sorry that you're having a rough time. This is out of the scope of what AskMe can help with. We've got some resources collected that may be able to help you better. -- restless_nomad

2018-12-20

I'm going to have a grandson - family love boys

Post 329648 by mumimor deleted for the following reason: Heya! Congrats and I totally get it you're kinda verklempt with the everything, but there isn't really a workable question here so far. If you end up sorting out a more specific framing of what you're looking for guidance and advice on or what concerns you have, it'd be fine to regroup and give this another shot then. -- cortex

2018-12-17

Homesick for Hamburgers - travel things different

Post 329548 by Crystal Fox deleted for the following reason: This is chatfilter, sorry. -- restless_nomad

2018-12-14

Talk to me about suicide - suicideideation philosophy mentalhealth

Post 329452 by Grandysaur deleted for the following reason: This is not a question we can reasonably entertain - feel free to drop us a line and we can talk about why in more detail. -- restless_nomad

2018-12-13

If you dont mind sleeping with your boss to get a promotion, is it bad? - family husband cheating

Post 329422 by direct1 deleted for the following reason: This is a bit of a mess as posted; maybe revisit this as a more focused question on whatever your core concern is re: your husband instead of this swerve from a long run-up about a hypothetical question the post leads with. -- cortex

2018-12-11

Help me develop a sense of self-image - blindness selfimage

Post 329321 by Anne Shirley deleted for the following reason: Hey there, I'm sorry but yeah, this is a bit wide open for a question. If you'd like help possibly finding the site you remember or something similar, or if you'd like to get some sort of specific advice related to how you'd like to project yourself that has to do with wardrobe, hair style, etc, that could be a more targeted ask. Please contact us if you'd like to discuss! -- taz

Endoscopy in cats - what to expect afterwards - vet

Post 329363 by scrute deleted for the following reason: poster's request -- cortex

2018-12-04

Help me kill someone (for fiction) - crime novel characters

Post 329111 by Bella Donna deleted for the following reason: Sorry, elaborate assassination fantasies end up being a potential problem for the site; touch base with us for possible re-framing? -- LobsterMitten

2018-12-03

$20,000 to start your own business- what would you do?(currently in NYC) - internet entrepreneur startup

Post 329079 by MD_yeahright deleted for the following reason: Sorry, this is so broad that it's chatfilter. If you have more specific things in mind, that might help narrow it down to something more answerable. -- LobsterMitten

2018-11-29

Why are office computers so terrible? - slow bad

Post 328927 by inner_frustration deleted for the following reason: Sorry, this is a rant disguised as a question. -- restless_nomad

2018-11-28

Where are the southern manners?

Post 328900 by LLF246 deleted for the following reason: This will probably go better with minor reframing; as it is, it looks like picking a fight, which won't go over well. -- LobsterMitten

2018-11-25

Help me brainstorm options for getting a Thai work visa - thaiworkvisa thailand thailandenglishteaching

Post 328778 by bookman117 deleted for the following reason: Sorry, but you've changed this midstream from being about one thing to being about another, with some pretty offensive stereotyping and sexism, which is not okay here -- taz

Dating a guy who tells me he suffered abuse: how to move forward? - abusechildhoodlovesex

Post 328752 by Willow251 deleted for the following reason: Discuss with your therapist -- taz

2018-11-24

Looking For Speakers for Upcoming Buckminster Fuller Event

Post 328737 by goalyeehah deleted for the following reason: It's not clear what the question here is -- contact us to rewrite -- Eyebrows McGee

2018-11-23

Why is masculinity so fragile? - fragility gender

Post 328685 by Crookshanks_Meow deleted for the following reason: Sorry, I don't think this is going to work. If you want to try this one again, please be a bit more concrete and maybe tell us a bit more, I'm afraid you'll have to be specific to make this a workable question. -- goodnewsfortheinsane

2018-11-20

Software worth paying for? Black Friday Edition - paid money

Post 328601 by Ahmed_Nabil deleted for the following reason: Sorry, it's not allowed to post the same question again for "continuation." -- LobsterMitten

2018-11-15

Ladies, what are your best reads? - books inspiration culture

Post 328441 by sophieJu deleted for the following reason: Basically any question that opens with "I'll go first!" is chatfilter, sorry. -- restless_nomad

2018-11-13

What are all options for remedying these misogynst death threats? - LosAngeles indierock toxicmasculinity

Post 328377 by kensington314 deleted for the following reason: Heya, I appreciate you're trying to provide context for a worrying situation, but I reckon there's a way to get at the key bits you want advice on with a rewrite that doesn't involve painting a super detailed picture of your GF in the process and that'd be a better way to go. Maybe give this an edited-down do-over. -- cortex

2018-11-10

What factors lead people to become sexually dominant or submissive? - BDSM kink psychology

Post 328281 by Delia deleted for the following reason: Heya, if this is really just "what does everyone think about these statements of mine", it's going to be chatfilter and angry chatfilter/debatefilter at that. There isn't a good way for it to work on AskMe. Contact us if you'd like to reframe. -- LobsterMitten