2016-07-25

I care about what you think of me. - superficial depression friends

Post 298573 by morning_television deleted for the following reason: Heya, I'm sorry this is frustrating for you, but it's in the same vein as other questions you've asked, and is basically yeah, more of a question for therapy than something folks here can tell you. -- LobsterMitten

2016-07-24

Will these political domains be worth anything? - domainames politics

Post 298516 by bdk3clash deleted for the following reason: Heya, sorry, this is sort of an imponderable question, where nobody has any better basis to speculate than you do. Also, I'm sure unintentionally, it ends up coming across a bit as an advertisement for your having these domains, which is something we want to draw a bright line against. -- LobsterMitten

2016-07-23

Former new parents, lend me your anecdata! - parenting baby family

Post 298474 by dissolvedgirl22 deleted for the following reason: Hey, sorry, but there doesn't seem to be a concrete question here, and asking for stories is considered "chatfilter" (see here), and against guidelines. -- taz

2016-07-21

Help me resolve this cognitive dissonance/find closure! - student faculty relation

Post 298415 by redwaterman deleted for the following reason: Heya, I'm sorry this happened, but we don't allow revenge questions on AskMe and this is uncomfortably in that range. -- LobsterMitten

Cat Breeder Switched Kitten - show registry resolved

Post 298414 by scarbo deleted for the following reason: poster's request -- cortex

2016-07-20

Hearing loss and alcohol - deafness

Post 298403 by Jason and Laszlo deleted for the following reason: There's possibly an answerable question here, but it needs to be set up differently. Please drop us a line if you want to rework it. -- restless_nomad

2016-07-16

2016-07-15

Starting a new life. Los Angeles. $300.

Post 298204 by frenchfryfrenzy deleted for the following reason: Heya, it needs to be a lot clearer whether this is "I'm actually in this position and need some guidance ASAP" (in which case it needs a bit of a rewrite before it's going to work well as an Ask) or "here's a hypothetical, go!" in which case it's unworkable as chatfilter. -- cortex

2016-07-12

Life Lost - death family purpose

Post 298067 by daveg02 deleted for the following reason: Hey there, I'm sorry; this question is chatfilter, as framed. I'm so sorry you're going through this. Be kind to yourself; grief is hard but it gets less painful with time. Let us know if you need to talk. -- LobsterMitten

2016-07-11

2016-07-09

Husband resents my personality when it comes to his family - In laws

Post 297962 by tangomija deleted for the following reason: Hey there, I'm sorry you're in this very difficult situation, but AskMe isn't for venting or asking the same question over and over. -- LobsterMitten

2016-07-07

Multi Effects or Boutique Guitar Pedals All the Way? - effectpedals

Post 297909 by Fierce deleted for the following reason: This is spam, and not very subtle spam. -- restless_nomad

2016-07-06

Lack of curiosity in a relationship - breaking up

Post 297855 by Jaspersen145 deleted for the following reason: Heya, there's not really a clear answerable question here. -- cortex

2016-07-05

Was the wrestling real to you? - professionalwrestling kayfabe

Post 297814 by clawsoon deleted for the following reason: Sorry, as framed this is pretty much chatfilter. -- LobsterMitten

2016-07-04

gif of a Mexican in a sombrero, psychedelic flashing colours? - image effect photoshop

Post 297776 by Meatbomb deleted for the following reason: Sorry, it seems like an unfortunate likely outcome here is for a lot of racist memes to be posted, which I'm sure is not what you want, and definitely is not what Ask Me is for -- taz

How to reconciliation with my fiancée? - Engagement Dating Relationships

Post 297774 by easilyconfused deleted for the following reason: Sorry, but this isn't really a concrete question we can help with, but more like your own processing of the situation. -- taz

Why do I keep attracting lame friends??? - crazy

Post 297792 by rancher deleted for the following reason: This is an awful lot of "here's details about how I think my friends suck" and not a very clear answerable question; maybe try to trim this down to something more focused and try again next week. -- cortex

2016-07-03

Does previous experience with another girl means she is bisexual? - female relationshps

Post 297759 by mbn1455 deleted for the following reason: I don't think Ask can help you with these questions about your relationships any longer. -- Eyebrows McGee

2016-07-02

Orthotic Sandal - Sandals

Post 297727 by Norm B deleted for the following reason: If you're trying to get feedback on a business idea or something like that this needs to have a lot more detail to work. -- cortex

2016-06-29

I think we're breaking up and I don't know how to cope. - Mentalhealth

Post 297586 by DeltaForce deleted for the following reason: Heya, I'm so sorry you're dealing with this right now, but there's not really an answerable Ask MetaFilter-type question in here as currently written. -- cortex

Why do individuals chose to stay in relationships with indifferent SOs? - fear breaking up

Post 297585 by MamaBee223 deleted for the following reason: I'm sorry you're having a rough time of it, but this is framed in kind of a broadly chatfiltery way, with you seeming to answer most of your own questions in the text of the post. If there's a way to rework this to narrow it down more to something concretely answerable, maybe give it another go next week? -- cortex

2016-06-28

How do you stop associating your self-worth with others’ opinions? - selfishness independence selfesteem

Post 297550 by rhythm_queen deleted for the following reason: Sorry, this is a variation on a question you've asked a number of times; better to take a look back at some of those previous answers if you need inspiration today. -- LobsterMitten

Why are so many black women scared of cats? - catphobia ailurophobia felinophobia

Post 297548 by Jacqueline deleted for the following reason: Sorry, this is really not going to work here. -- LobsterMitten

2016-06-27

Lidia Bastianich, Grandmother or Grinch? - cooking personality celebrity

Post 297532 by AugustWest deleted for the following reason: Sorry, this is a sort of weird question for AskMe as-framed, touch base with us in the next hour or so if you'd like to talk about a rewrite. -- LobsterMitten

2016-06-25

Rules for waiting in line with kids - Parenting

Post 297445 by Metheglen deleted for the following reason: This is kinda on the "hey I just want to hear some opinions about this third-party dispute" chatfiltery side for Ask. -- cortex