Post 334603 by EatMyHat deleted for the following reason: A couple of problems here: a) Ask Me isn't meant to be used for an ongoing, "here's where I am now" sort of dialogue, but also b) this is too general to be answered in a satisfactory way, where "others" is an undefined, amorphous group. Please contact us if you'd like help narrowing this down into a more specific question. -- taz