Post 115498 by sixcolors deleted for the following reason: sixcolors - you need to ask questions in AskMe that do not all devolve into terrific trainwrecks. This question is not a good example of "how can I ask a question of the MeFi community that is not going to go badly from the get go" Please try again next week if this is very important to you or run your question by one of the mods first. -- jessamyn