Why do individuals chose to stay in relationships with indifferent SOs? - fear breaking up

Post 297585 by MamaBee223 deleted for the following reason: I'm sorry you're having a rough time of it, but this is framed in kind of a broadly chatfiltery way, with you seeming to answer most of your own questions in the text of the post. If there's a way to rework this to narrow it down more to something concretely answerable, maybe give it another go next week? -- cortex