2018-11-29

Why are office computers so terrible? - slow bad

Post 328927 by inner_frustration deleted for the following reason: Sorry, this is a rant disguised as a question. -- restless_nomad

2018-11-28

Where are the southern manners?

Post 328900 by LLF246 deleted for the following reason: This will probably go better with minor reframing; as it is, it looks like picking a fight, which won't go over well. -- LobsterMitten

2018-11-25

Help me brainstorm options for getting a Thai work visa - thaiworkvisa thailand thailandenglishteaching

Post 328778 by bookman117 deleted for the following reason: Sorry, but you've changed this midstream from being about one thing to being about another, with some pretty offensive stereotyping and sexism, which is not okay here -- taz

Dating a guy who tells me he suffered abuse: how to move forward? - abusechildhoodlovesex

Post 328752 by Willow251 deleted for the following reason: Discuss with your therapist -- taz

2018-11-24

Looking For Speakers for Upcoming Buckminster Fuller Event

Post 328737 by goalyeehah deleted for the following reason: It's not clear what the question here is -- contact us to rewrite -- Eyebrows McGee

2018-11-23

Why is masculinity so fragile? - fragility gender

Post 328685 by Crookshanks_Meow deleted for the following reason: Sorry, I don't think this is going to work. If you want to try this one again, please be a bit more concrete and maybe tell us a bit more, I'm afraid you'll have to be specific to make this a workable question. -- goodnewsfortheinsane

2018-11-20

Software worth paying for? Black Friday Edition - paid money

Post 328601 by Ahmed_Nabil deleted for the following reason: Sorry, it's not allowed to post the same question again for "continuation." -- LobsterMitten

2018-11-15

Ladies, what are your best reads? - books inspiration culture

Post 328441 by sophieJu deleted for the following reason: Basically any question that opens with "I'll go first!" is chatfilter, sorry. -- restless_nomad

2018-11-13

What are all options for remedying these misogynst death threats? - LosAngeles indierock toxicmasculinity

Post 328377 by kensington314 deleted for the following reason: Heya, I appreciate you're trying to provide context for a worrying situation, but I reckon there's a way to get at the key bits you want advice on with a rewrite that doesn't involve painting a super detailed picture of your GF in the process and that'd be a better way to go. Maybe give this an edited-down do-over. -- cortex

2018-11-10

What factors lead people to become sexually dominant or submissive? - BDSM kink psychology

Post 328281 by Delia deleted for the following reason: Heya, if this is really just "what does everyone think about these statements of mine", it's going to be chatfilter and angry chatfilter/debatefilter at that. There isn't a good way for it to work on AskMe. Contact us if you'd like to reframe. -- LobsterMitten

How to approach further intimacy in a new dating relationship? - sex love vulnerability

Post 328272 by Willow251 deleted for the following reason: Once again, AskMe isn't for play-by-play relationship stuff. Please don't continue to ask ongoing "what did they mean by X" / "how can I communicate X" at every step. A therapist can give you the support you want and help you build these communication skills for yourself. Also, this question is also edging into revealing private info about a third party without their consent, which isn't a good direction. -- taz

2018-11-03

The written word, delivered to my door - printmedia magazines

Post 328068 by anonymous deleted for the following reason: POsters request -- LobsterMitten

Is renting your dog out a thing now? Plus dog sharing questions... - dogshare mercenary

Post 328059 by doornoise deleted for the following reason: Heya, sorry for the delayed delete here, it seems like this is just some person's ad which maybe is a bit not-great for us to be directing scrutiny onto; if the question is whether dog-share is a thing we can maybe just get answers for that. -- LobsterMitten

2018-11-01