2018-11-25

Help me brainstorm options for getting a Thai work visa - thaiworkvisa thailand thailandenglishteaching

Post 328778 by bookman117 deleted for the following reason: Sorry, but you've changed this midstream from being about one thing to being about another, with some pretty offensive stereotyping and sexism, which is not okay here -- taz

Dating a guy who tells me he suffered abuse: how to move forward? - abusechildhoodlovesex

Post 328752 by Willow251 deleted for the following reason: Discuss with your therapist -- taz

2018-11-24

Looking For Speakers for Upcoming Buckminster Fuller Event

Post 328737 by goalyeehah deleted for the following reason: It's not clear what the question here is -- contact us to rewrite -- Eyebrows McGee

2018-11-23

Why is masculinity so fragile? - fragility gender

Post 328685 by Crookshanks_Meow deleted for the following reason: Sorry, I don't think this is going to work. If you want to try this one again, please be a bit more concrete and maybe tell us a bit more, I'm afraid you'll have to be specific to make this a workable question. -- goodnewsfortheinsane

2018-11-20

Software worth paying for? Black Friday Edition - paid money

Post 328601 by Ahmed_Nabil deleted for the following reason: Sorry, it's not allowed to post the same question again for "continuation." -- LobsterMitten

2018-11-15

Ladies, what are your best reads? - books inspiration culture

Post 328441 by sophieJu deleted for the following reason: Basically any question that opens with "I'll go first!" is chatfilter, sorry. -- restless_nomad

2018-11-13

What are all options for remedying these misogynst death threats? - LosAngeles indierock toxicmasculinity

Post 328377 by kensington314 deleted for the following reason: Heya, I appreciate you're trying to provide context for a worrying situation, but I reckon there's a way to get at the key bits you want advice on with a rewrite that doesn't involve painting a super detailed picture of your GF in the process and that'd be a better way to go. Maybe give this an edited-down do-over. -- cortex

2018-11-10

What factors lead people to become sexually dominant or submissive? - BDSM kink psychology

Post 328281 by Delia deleted for the following reason: Heya, if this is really just "what does everyone think about these statements of mine", it's going to be chatfilter and angry chatfilter/debatefilter at that. There isn't a good way for it to work on AskMe. Contact us if you'd like to reframe. -- LobsterMitten

How to approach further intimacy in a new dating relationship? - sex love vulnerability

Post 328272 by Willow251 deleted for the following reason: Once again, AskMe isn't for play-by-play relationship stuff. Please don't continue to ask ongoing "what did they mean by X" / "how can I communicate X" at every step. A therapist can give you the support you want and help you build these communication skills for yourself. Also, this question is also edging into revealing private info about a third party without their consent, which isn't a good direction. -- taz

2018-11-03

The written word, delivered to my door - printmedia magazines

Post 328068 by anonymous deleted for the following reason: POsters request -- LobsterMitten

Is renting your dog out a thing now? Plus dog sharing questions... - dogshare mercenary

Post 328059 by doornoise deleted for the following reason: Heya, sorry for the delayed delete here, it seems like this is just some person's ad which maybe is a bit not-great for us to be directing scrutiny onto; if the question is whether dog-share is a thing we can maybe just get answers for that. -- LobsterMitten

2018-11-01

2018-10-29

Help me be compassionate - Baby loss bereavement

Post 327919 by EatMyHat deleted for the following reason: Sorry, but this is less a request for education than an argument for your point of view, posted in a really offensive way, and will not go well at all. -- taz

Can an eastern european with 20000 euros settle in Canada? - movetocanada salaries homeownership

Post 327887 by ide deleted for the following reason: Spammer; banned -- taz

2018-10-28

2018-10-25

Did my friend get pregnant to trap a guy? Also should I get a post nup? - family husband nuptial

Post 327786 by direct1 deleted for the following reason: There's not really any way folks here could answer the main question here; it's really not at all workable for Ask. -- cortex

2018-10-22

Bulimia and Anorexia - Illness

Post 327673 by Kilovolt deleted for the following reason: This is not a good way to frame a question on this topic. -- LobsterMitten

2018-10-18

Why do men suck at flirting? - dating

Post 327565 by Sterros deleted for the following reason: Heya, if this really is mostly just a "thoughts?" thing and not looking to try and work out a solution to a specific problem, it's pretty far into chatfilter territory. -- cortex

2018-10-14

Should I change my username? - metafilter

Post 327389 by fatfrank deleted for the following reason: Hi there, for questions related to Metafilter itself, please post at Metatalk. Thanks! -- taz

2018-10-13

Like Duolingo but with travel phrases? - French language apps

Post 327360 by rednikki deleted for the following reason: Poster's request -- taz

Christmas arts n' crafts - present crazy ambitious

Post 327381 by shapes that haunt the dusk deleted for the following reason: poster's request -- Eyebrows McGee

2018-10-12

The Rise of Populism

Post 327349 by TruthfulCalling deleted for the following reason: This is not how the site works -- restless_nomad

2018-10-08

What do you think of Dale Carnegie training?

Post 327210 by metamonday deleted for the following reason: Sorry, this is chatfilter. Also, please check that you're familiar with the rules about multiple accounts; abusing the multiple account rules is potentially bannable. -- LobsterMitten

Avoiding a Homeless Foop - mustmove sanluisobispo disabled

Post 327202 by oneswellfoop deleted for the following reason: Heya, I'm sorry you're in this situation! But "if you can't offer direct assistance" suggests this is posted as a request for direct assistance, which isn't workable. Get in touch if you'd like to edit to emphasize what kind of informational help you want. -- LobsterMitten

People are good, right? - Violence

Post 327201 by pH Indicating Socks deleted for the following reason: Drop us a line and we can try to get this somewhere workable. -- restless_nomad